Some advanced dancers will tell you that they don’t want to take on more responsibilities in their lives. They come to Tango to enjoy and have fun. They already have a lot of responsibilities in their lives and don’t want Tango to add more to them. Like the responsibility that is asked is something huge! I can see where this comes from but in the end it’s like I listen to a parent saying “I wanted to have children but I don’t like the responsibilities which come with it” or an employee saying “Yes… I would gladly take a new position… but I don’t want to be responsible for the department I will lead”. Does it make sense to you?