Tonight’s goodnight tango… is about her… or as the title says… “you”.
I wrote many days ago about the first time you dance with someone. In that post, I focused on what happens after you start dancing. But in this post, I would like to focus on what happened before. How do you select and say yes… I would like to dance with him/her. We all see each other in milongas, marathons, and other events. What is the key element you notice that makes you say… YES. For me, I don’t really know what it is. Sometimes it’s just a random choice because I just want to dance that tanda… but when there is something I would say it’s most of the time some kind of detail that gets my attention… like how she embraces… or if she seems to enjoy the music when dancing… or a smile… or her reaction to a “mistake”… or…?
What about you?